Pastor Elie Hamuli
We are transferred spiritually from darkness into light when we give our lives to Christ (see 1 Peter 2:9). Even though we are saved on the inside, there are factors around us that affect the expression of our “inner man.” Thus, this exchange is not just spiritual but requires a physical environment that supports our spiritual growth. Just as the sick heal promptly in a hospital due to the controlled care they receive, our spiritual maturity is enhanced when we engage in fellowship, prayer, and the study of God’s Word within a supportive community.
God places us in a spiritual family—a church, which serves as a community, a school (that helps us study and know the Word of God) and a hospital (where the healing of physical and spiritual sickness takes place at the level of our souls). It is within this family that we grow, learn, and heal.
The concept of spiritual fathers, though often misunderstood or misused, remains a valid and important aspect of spiritual growth. A spiritual father, appointed by God, guides and nurtures us in our spiritual journey, much like how Paul mentored Timothy (see 1 Timothy 1:2). We do not choose a spiritual father but God appoints them. However, the choice to become sons and daughters rests on us to God appointed figures.
How then shall we know that we are headed in the right direction, growing spiritually within the fellowship of those who love and seek God? In the next paragraph, let us briefly learn about the signs of spiritual maturity as Christians.
Growth and Dependency
Spiritual maturity is not about independence but rather growing in dependence on God. Spiritually, God desires us to become more like children, as this is how we truly grow. This perspective contrasts with mere human logic, where growth is often measured by our increasing independence.
Serving Others and Serving Faithfully in a Local Church
True maturity is demonstrated when we serve others selflessly (see Matthew 23:11). From a godly viewpoint, such service elevates us. This differs from our worldly understanding—where greatness is typically associated with having authority and the power to make demands rather than to serve. Faithful service within the church also signals maturity. “Faithfully” here is used purposefully, as there are people who serve everywhere. When we do not stand for anything, we fall for everything.
A Teachable Spirit and Accountability
Maintaining a teachable spirit is a hallmark of maturity (see 1 Corinthians 8:1-2). We should avoid being full of ourselves and remain open to learning from anyone at any time, which aligns closely with the principle of accountability. Being accountable to spiritual leaders is equally important, as it shows our willingness to be guided. Even Hebrews 13:17 emphasises the need for us to enable our leaders to guide us joyfully for this is essential for the prosperity of our souls.
Taking Initiative
Spiritual maturity also involves taking initiative when necessary. If we know the good that we should do but do not do it, we are sinning (see James 4:17).
A Godly Language
Spiritual maturity is not about being sharp or ready to fight (see Proverbs 25:15); rather, it involves using Godly language that is gracious and wise (see Colossians 4:5-6).
Giving offering or tithe
Giving offerings or tithes, reflects our recognition of God as our provider (see Hebrews 7:1-2). Tithing is more about acknowledging God’s provision and worshipping Him than it is about money. In everything God provides, there is a portion that belongs to God first, a portion for us, and a portion for others.
Prayer and Meditation Time
Finally, dedicating personal time to prayer and meditation is a key aspect of our spiritual growth and a sign of our maturity.
In summary, spiritual growth requires collaboration with God, discipline, and active participation in the life of the church. As we grow, we become more dependent on God, serve others with humility, and live a life that honours the Lord in all aspects.
